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Sunday, April 8, 2007,8:49 AM

BacK To RealitY

Dear friends, are u feeling lost in your relationship? are you tired on maintaining it?are you in a equity relationship? lets think about it......

In my opinion, if you be with someone does not appreciate you, if you be with someone does not pay as much as you did, if you be with someone does not really bother you. Why don't you just walk away from this deficient relationship?

Allow me to prove it to you with this economic equation(social exchange theory)http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_exchange_theory

Rewards - Costs = Profits

Try to apply this to your current relationship. In this equation,

Rewards are anything that you want, that you enjoy and that you'd be willing to incur costs to obtain.

Costs are those things that you normally try to avoid - things you consider unpleasant or difficult.

If your costs is increase and the rewards you got is decreasing, no doubt you will be in a unprofitable relationship.

Hence, why don't you be a savvy lover??be awake, awake, awake.....

On the other hand, of course it is not that simple, it's need times to realize, it's need times to analyze,but still do not sacrifice where you are not sactisfy.

An ideal relationship is claim that you develope and maintain it in which your ratio of rewards to costs is approximately equal to your partner's.

"Oh well I don't mind, you don't mind
Cause I don't shine if you don't shine,
Before you go, can you read my mind?"

The Killers said.

"I don't like reality
It's way too clear to me
But really life is daily
We are what we don't see.......
Lovers to friends
Why do all good things come to an end?

Nelly Furtado doubted.

"When you're dreaming with a broken heart
The giving up is the hardest part"

John Mayer stated.